These explicitly sexual kinds of novels make me squirm and I
find them not to my taste. I don’t care if people read these kinds of stories
if that’s what they like to read but I don’t find them appropriate and so I
don’t read them nor do I write them.
So in my writing love stories are always subplots and as fun
as they are to develop I cringe at the thought of people I know reading them,
lol! I know it sounds silly but I fear either I went too far or not enough. I’m
afraid they’ll be like what is going on with you for writing these scenes. The scenes
aren’t explicit, just what may be deemed adolescent kissing, well maybe a bit
more passionate but nothing too hot and heavy.
I even wanted to put an example here of a scene but I am
beyond nervous that many I know will see it. I know when I self-publish they’ll
read it but I am just mortified to imagine there’re reactions.
There was one scene I was writing how this guy was falling for
a lady and what it felt like with her in his arms when he carried her to her
room as she had twisted her ankle and when my mom read it I nearly freaked out.
The intense description of his feelings was a bit too much; I wound up revising
it by choice.
Other times I fear my writing of minimalist intimate scenes
are juvenile like. So most of the time I worry how it will be perceived by a
broad group of people versus my own feelings toward it.
There was one section of one of my novels I sent to a
friend. In the scene there is one area where it is where a guy was rubbing a
healing lotion on a woman’s back and I was freaking out when I knew I had sent
that section. Of course my friend came back and said she liked the whole
section I had sent. So I was beyond happy but I dared not ask what she thought about
that particular scene. I fear I am over thinking it and freaking myself out,
lol!
Even though these scenes are scarce I wonder if I do too much
in a scene or too little. I wonder if people will think if too much in a scene I’m
not sticking clean and Christian or if not enough in a scene I risk the scene
falling flat and boring.
Of course I love a good swoon worthy intimate scene if
placed right and is meant to be there, so I don’t see changing my writing in
that regard and will just have to get used to others reactions to the scenes. I
will never go too far though with characters in these scenes because of the age
group I tend to gear my novels toward and even though I know those age groups
know much more about intense intimate relationships than some think I prefer to
stay light for my own sake, lol. I should mention though that I know how to
take criticism, I am just so unsure on these particular scenes more than any
other aspect of my writing.
I suppose some writers have similar areas in their novels where
they are uncomfortable with others reading it, so I guess I am not alone in
that aspect. And I suppose many writers have times where they start to down
their own writing.
I was mentioning this with my writer friend Kendra and she was saying don't worry how others view my novels, just write what I am comfortable with and feel I like. I am trying to do just that but it's a tad difficult with some parts of my writing.
I was mentioning this with my writer friend Kendra and she was saying don't worry how others view my novels, just write what I am comfortable with and feel I like. I am trying to do just that but it's a tad difficult with some parts of my writing.
So if others have felt a bit uncomfortable or straight up
mortified by minimalist intimate scenes between their characters leave a
comment. Or perhaps if you feel certain stories or scenes you write you worry
about how it will be perceived by friends and family let me know as well. I
would love to hear of other writers experiences with this topic.
So this has been Musings of a Lonely Writer and until next
time Keep Reading, Keep Writing, and Keep Inspiring!
